ANGER WHEN MOULDED

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The antithetical resemblance of stoicism can be recognised as the anger. When we are unable to control certain stances, we prefer to divert ourselves into the most accessible form – fury.

Without being worried about the consequences we push ourselves into it, thus, making some great mistakes of our lives. But, certainly after a hiatus, a point is reached when we are able to be at calmness, deeply pondering about the importance of this aggression. We think about the damages it has already done to our mind, relationships or may be the materialistic chattels. We then retrospect if this rage was actually necessary.

Assuming the contradiction to the above situation-

What if we accept the circumstances? Would not there be different occurrences then?

The acceptance, in lieu, would provide the tolerance to us. The endurance to rigidly face any arduous life situations instead of being outrageous. We would not break down at any negligible notions. We would stand straight upholding our dignity and intelligence. We would be thriving with a smiling face conquering any strenuous battle. We would win.

Those who accept anger wholeheartedly, elaborately feeding each cell of his body with it, would show the face of pride and vanity hidden behind the furious face. It is this pride that had given birth to the rage and the cruelty. He feels happy and powerful than others.

Ah! Pity those innocent fools. How could ever be rage a supplement for power?

Looking from the juxtaposed perspective, the person who has actually faced the consequences of someone else’s vexation, is drastically distressed. He is hurt. Is it morally correct to make an individual or a group suffer because of someone else’s emotional blaze?  Rumination is essentially required by the outrageous person to know the sufferer’s plight. He who suffers, knows the pain.

If the wrath is checked and the pride is restrained; collapsing both under the feet of the self, a new power can be recreated, thus constructing the ladder of success which would take oneself higher and higher. To build an empire, humbleness and tolerance is as requisite as water for a plant to grow up. Empire need not be just materialistically signified but might also represent the building of morality, trust and goodwill. The thought to not to escalate the anger in itself is a try- to be tolerant and calm. And this is one of the pillars of success.

 

 

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